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Ordained as Minister of Shamanic and Spiritual Ceremony

Crafting and officiating poetic matrimony from simple or secular ~ to spiritual and sacred

Love Light & Music provides custom and personalized weddings with music. Debra is a Justice of the Peace, ordained as Clergy through the Universalist Life Church, and a singer/songwriter, providing a unique opportunity for a spiritually uplifting, economical and coordinated wedding within any tradition. Song requests are honored, however if you are looking for song ideas that have enhanced many a heartfelt ceremony, please see the list below with song samples. Any song can be customized by length. Check out the video of My Beloved, the song I wrote for weddings and renewal of vows ceremonies.

See photos and read reviews of Debra’s ceremonies

We were over joyed with our experience with Debra. We were looking for a shamanic officiant and she was amazing. Debra walked us through the ceremony process from beginning to end. She has so many formats for you to choose from and use to create your own personal spiritual ceremony that has deep meaning just for you as a couple. Debra was available to answer any questions and guided us through the process with ease. We had multiple zoom meetings leading up to our ceremony. Her voice was amazing, so soothing, gentle and soul full. We asked her to play her guitar and sing. We had so many compliments from our guests about our ceremony and how it really spoke to them in their own personal way and I give Debra the credit for opening a space of love and acceptance.

Debra was amazing! Highly Recommend – Debra was an exceptional officiant. She helped us plan a ceremony that felt like us and exceeded our expectations. She offered a long list of options to pick and choose how you want your ceremony to come together and then worked with us to make sure everything flowed just the way we wanted. She offered some great suggestions on how to make the ceremony even more special. We asked Debra to attend a rehearsal, which was definitely so helpful in making sure everyone felt comfortable on the day of. Debra also helped to coordinate the set-up of our microphone and our classical guitarist ahead of time – above and beyond what we expected! When it came time for our wedding day and ceremony Debra did a wonderful job. She was not rushed and carefully guided us through the ceremony. We would highly recommend Debra to anyone looking for a caring, compassionate, and genuine officiant. Thank you Debra!!!

Debra was amazing and the perfect person to marry us !!! To say Debra was amazing would be an understatement. From the first contact via wedding wire to the last moment the day of our wedding everything was absolutely perfect. Debra was extremely professional and organized. The ceremony was beyond beautiful . Be sure to bring plenty of tissues 🙂 We highly recommend you give Debra a call, you wont be disappointed I promise !!

We met Debra over zoom after finding her website online. We immediately got along as she talked us through the process and curated the perfect ceremony! She was so professional and organised whilst at the same time really personable and easy to get along with. The ceremony itself was perfect. Debra played her guitar beautifully as guests gathered and we walked down the aisle. Numerous guests commented on how good it all was. I highly recommend Debra for whatever you have in mind. We were very pleased indeed!!!

From the moment we made contact with Debra about crafting our ceremony, she made a point to get to know us and collaborate in creating something so unique that included elements from multiple philosophies. She offered interesting suggestions and unique ideas to enhance our experience. She really listened to our vision and we felt comfortable that she knew exactly what we wanted and how we wanted our ceremony to flow. Our confidence was confirmed the day of our wedding. Debra was a calm and loving presence that really enhanced the energy of the day. Her delivery of the ceremony was beautiful. She brought a great, positive vibe, lots of humor to the experience and gave us exactly what we wanted, the way we wanted it. We highly recommend having Debra as an officiant!

Excellent!! We had a wonderful experience with Debra, the ceremony was perfect and we would not change anything. She sang the song beloved beautifully and brought tears to our guests eyes, we kept the song as a surprise. She has a great, warm and friendly personality and smile. Everyone raved about her. Thank you Debra for making our day so special, we would highly recommend her.

Song Ideas
Song selections can be customized for your ceremony, with keyboard or guitar accompaniment options. Any song can be customized by length.

My Beloved

For those couples who wish to enhance their wedding ceremony with a deeply heartfelt song, I invite you to listen to or watch the video of my new song, My Beloved.

Short Version (often preferred for ceremonies)

     Listen & Watch Video

Long Version

     Listen & Watch Video
Read full lyrics


Written by Debra Lynn Alt ©2021

In this moment when I see you standing right in front of me
I am resting in the refuge of your eyes
For its now we will begin to walk a path we both can see
As we bring unto the other the journey of our lives

Today we will begin to build the union of our souls
Throwing open wide the doorway to our hearts
So grateful for your presence and the promises we hold
I reach for you and what we’re about to start

My beloved, I come to you with all I’m longing for
Across the bridge from days before
To an unknown sacred shore, there’s nothing I want more
than to come to you, my beloved

This tender road to love is lined by many lamps of fear
There to light the way when darkness falls
We’ll speak our truth together even when we can’t be near
While the trust between us breaks down all the walls

My beloved, I give to you, a song we both can hear
The sweetest sounds to fill the air
To sing of love that will endear, with a vision strong and clear
I give to you, my beloved

Our future looks brightest on this day, and with each unfolding dawn
The dance of our spirits lead the way, from this moment on

My beloved, I ask of you for love that will endure
To last as long as forevermore
To be the one worth waiting for, to cherish and adore
I ask of you, my beloved
I come to you, my beloved

  • How Can I Tell You
  • I Love How You Love Me
  • First Time Ever I Saw Your Face
  • The Rose
  • The Water is Wide
  • Imagine
  • Endless Love
  • Fly Me to the Moon
  • Crazy For You
  • Wind Beneath My Wings
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