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Ordained as Minster of Shamanic and Spiritual ceremony

Love Light & Music provides custom and personalized weddings with music. Debra is a Justice of the Peace, ordained as Clergy through the Universalist Life Church, and a singer/songwriter, providing a unique opportunity for a spiritually uplifting, economical and coordinated wedding within any tradition. Song requests are honored, however if you are looking for song ideas that have enhanced many a heartfelt ceremony, please see the list below with song samples. Any song can be customized by length. Check out the video of My Beloved, the song I wrote for weddings and renewal of vows ceremonies.

Read some reviews of Debra’s ceremonies

We would highly recommend Debra of Love, Light & Music, she was extremely professional and responsive throughout the entire process. Debra was also extremely patient with us and our changes along the way and even when our best man (who was traveling 12 hours) was an hour late to our rehearsal dinner due to traffic she did not complain once. It was an overall great experience and Debra helped keep everything moving along perfectly.

Debra was the perfect Officiant for our park wedding and is the perfect choice for yours! Debra is an outstanding officiant and I would recommend her to any couple who is looking for the perfect person for their wedding ceremony. Debra takes very good notes during your conversations with her, she is very inquisitive, listens carefully to your story and prepares a lovely tribute to you and your spouse on your wedding day. She was an enormous help during the rehearsal, as she was able to calm a lot of nerves about wedding party order, names, the parents and was able to give us the best guiding hand on our wedding day. She was also a great help with being able to conduct our interview, rehearsal and ceremony in a park, and with less than a month to really prepare. This was an incredible help, especially during covid, because our interviews were over Skype. There was a lot of pressure on her and she was aces, the compliments from our guests for Debra were 5 stars. Also, our wedding was in a park, which is not the norm, and my wife and I felt a little nervous about how it would work out, but Debra was perfect for us, she had no issues and took to our ideas seamlessly. In total, I cannot say enough kind words about Debra and her expertise as an officiant, as she made our day the best day of our lives. I would recommend her to any couple hands down, and hope you and your spouse choose her for your wedding.

When I looked for a Justice of the Peace to perform a wedding for my fiancé and me, I saw there were many choices. What made Debra Lynn Alt stand out with Love Light & Music is the fact that she offered music. We wanted something simple and precious for a last minute ceremony because we wanted to travel across the country to see family after getting married. We did not know the marriage license and certificate process, but Debra helped us get the license and was so friendly. Also, Debra created a ceremony that was so beautiful and well organized. We picked one song from Debra’s song list, and her singing for us was much more awesome than when we saw her sing on her website and Facebook.What I really appreciate it that Debra helped us find a beautiful and sweet place to get married. We did everything we needed in less than 2 weeks with Debra’s help. We are so grateful and lucky that we met her and have such beautiful memories of our wedding. After our ceremony, Debra gave us a present with a lovely card and helped us get the certificate. I would recommend Debra for any kind of wedding you would like to have.

From the moment we made contact with Debra about crafting our ceremony, she made a point to get to know us and collaborate in creating something so unique that included elements from multiple philosophies. She offered interesting suggestions and unique ideas to enhance our experience. She really listened to our vision and we felt comfortable that she knew exactly what we wanted and how we wanted our ceremony to flow. Our confidence was confirmed the day of our wedding. Debra was a calm and loving presence that really enhanced the energy of the day. Her delivery of the ceremony was beautiful. She brought a great, positive vibe, lots of humor to the experience and gave us exactly what we wanted, the way we wanted it. We highly recommend having Debra as an officiant!

We had always been moved by Deb’s music and felt beyond lucky when she agreed to sing a prayer and song at our wedding. It was important to her to get it just right so we met several times. She brought such reverence to the music and was just a beautiful part of our ceremony.

Deb showed up for us when we spontaneously decided to have a ring ceremony in a jewelry store! She was ready, willing and more than able to add joy and the spirit of sacredness to her role as officiant. We are so grateful for what she added to our magical moment!

We decided on a JP for our wedding. We were kind of all over the place with what we wanted but Debra was there for us from the very beginning.. from meeting with us initially in Zoom and through our countless email questions right up to our wedding day. We had changed our date with little notice and she happily accommodated. We didn’t meet her in person until the day of our wedding (due to covid) and it was like she knew us for years. Very attentive, responsive and has so much to offer from a small family ceremony like ours to the bigger more lavish ceremonies. She even filed our license the next day. Highly recommend!

Song Ideas
Song selections can be customized for your ceremony, with keyboard or guitar accompaniment options. Any song can be customized by length.

My Beloved

For those couples who wish to enhance their wedding ceremony with a deeply heartfelt song, I invite you to listen to or watch the video of my new song, My Beloved.

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Written by Debra Lynn Alt ©2021

In this moment when I see you standing right in front of me
I am resting in the refuge of your eyes
For its now we will begin to walk a path we both can see
As we bring unto the other the journey of our lives

Today we will begin to build the union of our souls
Throwing open wide the doorway to our hearts
So grateful for your presence and the promises we hold
I reach for you and what we’re about to start

My beloved, I come to you with all I’m longing for
Across the bridge from days before
To an unknown sacred shore, there’s nothing I want more
than to come to you, my beloved

This tender road to love is lined by many lamps of fear
There to light the way when darkness falls
We’ll speak our truth together even when we can’t be near
While the trust between us breaks down all the walls

My beloved, I give to you, a song we both can hear
The sweetest sounds to fill the air
To sing of love that will endear, with a vision strong and clear
I give to you, my beloved

Our future looks brightest on this day, and with each unfolding dawn
The dance of our spirits lead the way, from this moment on

My beloved, I ask of you for love that will endure
To last as long as forevermore
To be the one worth waiting for, to cherish and adore
I ask of you, my beloved
I come to you, my beloved

      If I Should Fall Behind

      This Magic Moment

      Wedding Song

      Grow Old Along With Me

      I Can Hear Music

      I Only Want to Be with You

      Could I have this Dance

      I Believe in You and Me

      Here, There and Everywhere

      Annie's Song

  • How Can I Tell You
  • I Love How You Love Me
  • First Time Ever I Saw Your Face
  • The Rose
  • The Water is Wide
  • Imagine
  • Endless Love
  • Fly Me to the Moon
  • Crazy For You
  • Wind Beneath My Wings
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